How To Tell If A Shy Guy Likes You

SUMMARY

It’s already pretty confusing at times deciphering whether or not a man likes you.  Throw in the fact that said guy might be shy and you’re left thinking …is he interested, because I really can’t tell!

For your shy code-cracking pleasure, here are a few signs that the shy guy you’ve been eyeing has been eyeing you back.

#1 HE ACTS DIFFERENT AROUND AND TOWARDS YOU.

If you notice he’s a bit more comfortable or even slightly more outgoing with or around other people then there’s a good chance you make him (the good kind of) nervous.  

And nervous energy can often seem pretty weird.  If you’re in a group he make speak to everyone but you. He may get up and move when you enter the room.  

At first glance you may take this as a sign he’s not interested, but in reality he has no clue what to say or do around you and he may just not want to blow it.  

So when it comes to this shy guy if you notice that things are unexplainably different for you, then that can be a really good sign.   

#2 HIS BODY TELLS YOU SO.

The face of a guy who isn’t shy usually gives him away.  He’s smiling, making eye contact, maybe even blushing.  With a shy guy however, you’re rarely going to catch a long enough glimpse of his face to tell you anything.  As soon as your eyes meet his, the shy guy is going to turn away.  

This can be frustrating, because yeah you caught him looking your direction, but you still don’t really know.  

What you want to do with this shy guy is capture a body baseline.  

Try to notice his body language in different settings or around different people and see if his normal gestures change when you get close to him.  If he’s fidgeting with his arm, or his hair, or he doesn’t know what to do with his hands while you're around but you didn’t really notice him do that in any other settings, chances are he likes you.  And he doesn’t know what to do about it.

#3 HE MAKES HIS WAY AROUND YOU BUT NOT CLOSE TO YOU. 

If you always see this shy guy in your peripheral vision but he never seems to be able to get closer than a couple body lengths away, then he may love being in your presence but simply unable to work up the gumption to actually get close to you.  

Although a bit awkward, it’s a good sign.
 

#4 HE MAKES ABRUPT AND OFTEN AWKWARD EXITS. 

Shy guys, and girls for that matter, are already self conscious about being awkward and shy, and while this guy may love and even dream of being in your presence he doesn’t know what to do or say when he’s around you.

So if you do find yourself close to him, to maybe introduce yourself or ask him a question you may be met with a short answer, followed by an awkward pause, and then him bolting out of there.  

Weird, yes.  But it’s only because he likes you.

 

I hope these tips can help you tell if that shy guy likes you!  

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You can have the love you want.  You just have to do something different to get something different.  And if you’re willing to do the work, I’m more than willing to help you get there.

Here’s to shy glances blossoming into loving romance.

Tiye